Because your voice isnât optional. Itâs powerful. And itâs time to start using it.
Youâre in a meeting. Someone raises a point that brushes against your area of expertise. You feel that spark â the idea, the insight, the better way forward. You could speak. You want to. But something catches.
What if I interrupt? What if Iâm wrong? What if it doesnât land the way I mean it to?
So you stay quiet. And later, someone else says the thing â your thing â and the room lights up.
If this feels familiar, youâre not alone.
Many women â especially those in creative or male-dominated industries â hesitate in these moments. Not because they lack value, but because theyâve internalised a lifetime of messages that make speaking up feel like a risk.
But hereâs the truth: your voice is part of your leadership. Not a bonus. Not a maybe. A necessity.
And when you speak up, even imperfectly, youâre not just contributing â youâre reshaping the culture of the room itself.
Your Perspective Isnât Redundant â Itâs Essential
You bring more than your job title to every meeting. You bring:
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Lived experience
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Creative instinct
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Cultural insight
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Industry knowledge
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Emotional intelligence
When you withhold your voice, that richness is missing. And so are the possibilities it could unlock â for innovation, inclusion, and better decision-making.
Youâre in the room for a reason.
Not to observe. To shape. To guide. To shift.
Every time you speak, you make the conversation more complete.
The Myth of the âFully Formedâ Idea
One of the biggest reasons women stay silent? They think their idea needs to be perfect before it’s shared.
But in reality, ideas grow through dialogue.
Sharing something âin progressâ is not a flaw â itâs an invitation. Youâre testing the waters, not publishing a manifesto. And when you open that space, you invite collaboration, expansion, and momentum.
Try framing it like this:
âIâd love to float an early thought here â not fully formed yet, but it might spark something.â
âWhat if we explored this direction⌠Iâm curious where it could lead?â
This isnât hedging. Itâs leading. And it gives others permission to do the same.
Speaking Up Builds Confidence â and Credibility
Confidence isnât a prerequisite for speaking up. Itâs a byproduct.
Each time you voice your perspective, two things happen:
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You strengthen your internal trust â proving to yourself that you can survive (and thrive) in visibility
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You shape how others perceive your presence â as engaged, thoughtful, and invested
Over time, these moments compound. You go from occasional contributor to consistent thought partner. From participant to leader.
Youâre not just seen. Youâre heard.
If Youâre Not Ready to Lead the Charge, Start Small
You donât need to drop groundbreaking strategies in every meeting. If offering new ideas feels daunting, begin by adding value to whatâs already on the table.
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Echo and build on a colleagueâs point: âI want to underscore what Sarah just said â I think thereâs real opportunity there.â
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Ask clarifying questions that move the conversation forward
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Offer an example or insight from a different perspective
The point isnât to dominate â itâs to engage. And every time you do, your comfort grows.
Quality Over Quantity â But Donât Wait for Perfection
Itâs tempting to hold your ideas back until theyâre airtight. But too much caution becomes silence. And silence can look like disengagement â even when youâre deeply invested.
Shift your internal question from âIs this perfect?â to âIs this helpful?â
Thatâs the line that matters.
When you speak with intention and clarity, people listen â not because youâre the loudest, but because your words carry weight.
What Happens When Women Speak
The ripple effects of speaking up go far beyond a single meeting.
You:
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Model courage for others who are still finding their voice
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Invite new ideas into spaces that have grown stagnant
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Influence decisions and direction in ways that align with your values
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Prove to yourself â again and again â that your perspective is not just valid, but valuable
And perhaps most importantly:
You begin to unlearn the instinct to wait. To defer. To soften.
You learn to lead, even in small moments.
 Final Note: This Is About More Than Meetings
Speaking up isnât about taking over the room. Itâs about taking up the space thatâs already yours.
Itâs how you honour your ideas.
Itâs how you advocate for what matters.
Itâs how you show up â fully, and without apology â in rooms that need your voice.
So next time you feel that familiar hesitation, pause and remember:
This is not about being flawless.
This is about being present.
Your voice matters. Use it. And watch what shifts.
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